I grew up disconnected from my Dominican and Jamaican roots, always feeling like I wasn't “enough” of anything—not Latina enough, Caribbean enough, not even Black enough. I carried shame, confusion, and uncertainty about whether I even had the right to claim a heritage I barely knew.
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When I began exploring my roots, there were no guides, no roadmaps, or no one to show me where to start. I had to find my own way—slowly, and in a way that felt authentic to me.
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When I adopted my Ethiopian-born daughter, I promised she wouldn’t grow up with that same disconnection. That promise became my purpose.
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I’m living this work every day—raising an Ethiopian daughter, caring for my aging mother, and navigating my own Dominican/Jamaican identity, all under one roof in Mexico. I know what this journey really looks like—and I’m here to walk it with you.
Now, as a Cultural Heritage Reconnection Coach, I offer the support I once needed. I guide people to rediscover their roots, reclaim pride in who they are, and create a legacy so future generations never have to wonder where they belong.
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You don’t need permission to reconnect.
You just need a place to begin—and you don’t have to do it alone.​
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But enough about the deep stuff—here's a few fun things about me, just to keep it interesting...
a little more about Tami
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Dance Like No One's Watching: I love reggae, merengue, bachata, and salsa, even if my feet occasionally miss the beat and I turn the wrong way!
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The Incognito Traveler: Blending in wherever I go until I try speaking the local language—always a moment for puzzled looks and laughter.
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​​​​​​​​​House Dynamics: While I "run" the house, my Ethiopian daughter declares herself our home's 'real African queen.'
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Globe-Trotting Duo: In 2021, I left a 30+ year life in DC for a suitcase (or 12) full of dreams and hair products, ready to explore the world's cultures with my daughter.​​



